love language

I think that love feels like the last part of Pink + White.

Love? is there any concrete definition?

Love is complex, yet we crave it.
It can’t really be described in words it's too beautiful to be put plainly.

we're so lucky that we get to feel it 

and we want to convey it

So we’ve created something called love languages:
Words of affirmation, quality time, physical touch, acts of service, receiving gifts.

Poems, songs, flowers, tears, and scents depict love

but maybe it’s really about forming a connection with someone and learning to speak in a language that resonates with them

Maybe it’s about reading the person you want to connect with and
becoming fluent in their language.

And sometimes, you might not even realize that certain moments or words carry more depth than you think you do
You might get lost in translation.
Then, all you can do is try to see where they’re coming from and understand things from their perspective.
Who knows - maybe you could even help rewrite that chapter for them, and make it feel not so heavy anymore.

Anyway, what I’m trying to say is,
When you want to let someone know that you care, try doing it in a way that reaches them comfortably
By knowing what matters to them and understanding why it matters.

They’ll often tell you what’s important
    and there’s a chance you might miss it, because from where you stand, the depth of it is not visible
(Hopefully, you don’t ignore it or laugh it off.)

If you’re unsure of how to show you care, or how to say what needs to be said
Just ask.

Don’t try to figure it out all on your own.
It’s their language you’re trying to speak.

Ask what matters to them, and try to understand why.
Say things in a way they might want to hear.
Give the comfort they’re hoping for.
Support them in the way they need to be supported.

And when you want to take care of someone-
Take care of them not only in the way you want to,
But in the way they need.
By knowing what truly matters to them.

Everyone has different experiences.
Those shape the way feelings appear to them

how they show love, how they receive it.

building a strong connection is important and
Maybe all it needs is to be strengthened

through communication, talking and getting to know each other 
And eventually, you’ll both become fluent in a language that only the two of you share :)

Sooo, let them know that you’re there for them, in a way they find comfort in.
It’s complex, yet we crave it.
We look for familiarity in it.

you both find yourselves doing things that you wouldn't usually do but 

for them, you would

don't forget to let them know that you appreciate them for everything that they do 

for-  learning about someone and getting across what you really mean may not always be easy

And in this complicated world where people are still figuring out what love is,
How it feels,
And how to love the right way-
you can always just tell them how you feel

And if you don’t find the courage to do so,

I hope they know.
Somehow.