Heal so you let yourself be loved

 Do you ever find it hard to believe that you deserve good things that come your way or find yourself pushing people away because you feel like there's no way they accept you for who you are ?

I'm no expert but i feel like we instill certain thoughts in our minds that prevent us from accepting the positive things that come our way because we think they aren't true and these thoughts come from our experiences with certain people, places and moments that left marks we couldn’t always see at the time.

but you know what? you deserve to be loved when you let your guard down and honestly you don't have to reach a certain version of yourself to be worthy of love and when I'm saying this i don't mean you shouldn't work on yourself or stop yourself from reaching the highest version of yourself what I'm trying to say is that you deserve all the love even when you're a work in progress, Even when you feel unsure. Even when you’re still figuring things out. and you push people away because you have convinced yourself that no one can like you or maybe question everything because you feel like it isn't even real 

heal, so you don't have to question everything

heal so that you accept the love you receive instead of asking yourself if you're worthy of it because you are and you understand it

so what does healing even mean?

Healing isn't just about feeling better; it's about opening yourself to connection, to trust, and to intimacy

Letting yourself be loved requires vulnerability. And vulnerability often feels dangerous when you're still carrying the pain of past hurt. So healing becomes an act of courage, a way of making space for love to enter without fear, without resistance.

I think healing starts when you realize what's negative for you and cut off bad friendships, bad habits and start accepting yourself for who you are 

once you start accepting yourself for who you are, embrace yourself and shower yourself with love 

I think Your nervous system starts to calm. Your guard starts to lower. Your relationships begin to shift, because the way you treat yourself changes the way you show up in the world.

You treat others with care, not because you’re trying to prove your worth, but because you’ve started to believe in it.

sooo, take care of yourself and work on yourself

you're not hard to love

you're enough just the way you are and you don't have to change or convince yourself otherwise

you deserve all the small wins and all the love in the world

heal, so when someone wants to love you

you let them 

because you believe you deserve it